Is your partner the right person for you?

Is your partner the right person for you?

Everybody wants to settle down at some point. We want to marry and have children. But it is very important to choose the right person before marrying. Many of us have boyfriends or girlfriends who love us and care for us. But, how do we get to know that our partners can be our right partners or not?

Characters to look for in boyfriends:

  • Responsible and stable: Whenever you start with a new life, you need money. Money is needed for buying house, marriage expenses, living expenses and many more things. If you are thinking of marrying your boyfriend, he should have his saving plans and should be financially stable. He should also know how to spend money wisely and should avoid frivolous spending.

  • Selfless, and not selfish: Marriage is a lot about compromises. Your boyfriend must have chosen you over all other things at some point. If a guy only thinks about himself and you are not his priority, then he is not the one with whom you can spend your life.

  • How he treats his mother: You should always observe how your boyfriend treats your mother, because he would be treating you in the same manner in future. If he cares for his mother and looks after her, then he is surely a marriage material.

  • Is his home tidy: Your boyfriend should keep his home tidy. If there are clothes and dirty dishes piled up at your boyfriend’s home, he is not a responsible person and you must keep that in mind.

  • Trust: Trust is an important factor in every relation. If you trust your boyfriend for what he says, then you can think of marrying him. Establishing mutual trust is very important before deciding for marriage.

Characters to look for in girlfriends:

  • Fickle-minded: If the girl you are proposing marriage is having trouble committing to a job, friends or a hair style, then it should give you a rough idea that she is not the committing type. Such girls are the one who keeps on making new friends and dump the old ones. So, be careful!

  • Being jealous: If your girlfriend is jealous of every girl who comes around you, then even putting a ring over her finger will not make her secure about your relation. Her behavior is sooner or later going to change into possessiveness. A good home maker is neither possessive nor irrational until the man gives her a good reason to be suspicious about.

  • Space & Trust: Giving space and trusting each other is among the other things which a girl need to put together if she really likes a guy. If your lady companion really loves you she will give you enough space to figure out the things you are up to in your life rather than pin pointing at your decisions. If you ever find such kind of a woman, never let her go.

  • The final thing that a guy should keep in mind before proposing to a woman is that whether she has a habit of making changes to your personality? If she does keep on making comments to your appearance, friends, etc. then it is an indirect way of telling that you are not good enough for her.

These signs will help you in evaluating if your boyfriend or girlfriend can be the perfect partner for you. It is not mandatory that they will fulfill all these criteria, but if they fulfill even some of these and there is mutual trust between both of you, wedding bells can definitely ring!

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How do we decide that we are ready for a child?

How do we decide that we are ready for a child?

After the marriage, people start asking questions about a child. With their smiling faces, they ask “when is the good news coming”. And most of the couples are confused about their answers. They don’t know what to answer because they don’t know the answer themselves. They keep thinking that what would be the right time to have a baby. There is no hard and fast rule to determine the right time, but you can consider the following points in deciding the right time:

Financially Stable

Marriage, in its own, is a responsibility. It is basically running a house and is very different from living alone. In addition to it, when you are thinking of having a child, you should ensure that you are financially stable at that time. Having a child adds on a lot of responsibilities; and you need to be financially stable for taking good care of the child.

Mature enough

Being financially competent is not enough. You need to be mature enough to take care of your child. In addition to it, you must be capable of giving good values, manners etc to your child.

Able to give time

It is very important to see that one of the partners is able to give time to the child. If both are working and are unable to provide quality time to the child, then it is not a good option to have a child. You have to avoid your work, at least for some time, if you plan to have a baby.

The above mentioned factors may help in deciding the time of having a baby. It is just when your inner voice says or react positive towards having a baby. You just need to think about a situation when you got to know that you are pregnant. If that situation makes you feel happy, then you are ready.

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How to handle a situation if my husband always favor his mother?

How to handle a situation if my husband always favor his mother?

Marriage is not just about two people committing and living together. But, it includes the families also; specially the groom’s family. Out of all the relations, the relation between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most bittersweet. There must have been situations when your husband favors his mother; and you would have felt bad. There is no need to worry in such situations. Following would help you in dealing with such situations:

Think your husband’s point of view

Whenever there is an argument or discussion, and your husband takes your mother-in-law’s side, try to understand the reason behind it. There is no need to be hurt or angry; rather try to understand him.

Understand your mother-in-law

You often feel insecure from your mother-in-law. But have you ever thought how does she feel? You should understand that she must be having a fear of losing her son. In that fear, she sometimes tends to do such things which could hurt you. It is better to understand your mother-in-law and talk to her about it. You should give her the surety that she won’t be left alone. In fact, you should be in good terms with her.

Be patient

You have to calm yourself whenever such situation arises. Losing your temper and having a fight is not the right thing to do. Instead, apply your mind and give logical objections to convince your husband.

Treat her as your own mother

Think about a situation when your husband doesn’t like when you take side of your mother. How would you feel? I know you will feel bad. Your husband feels the same way. Mothers are not really the one to be jealous and insecure off. There is no need to feel bad if your husband takes his mother’s side. You should really respect her and treat her the way you would treat your mother.

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Skin care before the wedding

Skin care before the wedding

The Wedding day is the most special day in a girl’s life . She is enthralled with joy and puts her best efforts to look and get dressed in the most ultimate way on this day. Of course , The preparation gets started many weeks before the wedding. At this point of time, The wed-to-be girl’s prime focus is to enhance her celestial beauty. The more she takes care of her skin, the more she will look pretty.

Here are some of the tips and tricks for the skin that can boost her looks:

  • The bride-to-be is advised to add liquids like coconut water and orange juice in her diet for making the skin glowing and fresh. Drinking 8 to 10 glasses of water every day is also very beneficial and it gives a real moisture to the skin as well.

  • If you have patches on the skin then starting with the regular facials will assist in getting the right skin tone and will give a perfect radiant skin. It is not necessary to spend hundreds of bucks for paying the parlor bills, one can also try natural homemade facials which are really cost-effective.

  • Furthermore, if you have some skin problem or allergy or scars etc, you can fix an appointment with skin professionals who can assist you in getting the problem-free skin for your wedding day.

  • Though the period before marriage is filled with anxiety, nervousness for many girls but they should take an adequate sleep during the night . A sound sleep will give consummate relaxation to both the body and the mind.

  • The girls must get involved in some physical exercise because your skin breathes properly during exercise.

  • Apply sunscreen on the skin before 15 minutes when you go out in the sun for your wedding shopping or other chores.

  • Try to keep stress at a distance as it may cause acne or pimples on the skin.

In crux, special care is always needed for the skin for making you and your wedding day more special.

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Selecting the right outfit of your wedding!

Selecting the right outfit of your wedding!

The wedding is absolutely ‘The D-day‘ in every couple’s life. Of course, the bride remains the center of attraction on this day. So, she would want to look beautiful, elegant and confident, just like a Princess. Her wedding dress ought to be perfect.

There are many things to be kept in mind for choosing the right outfit on your wedding day such as:

  • To begin, if you have fair skin tone then you can opt for any color of dress but if you are wheatish or dark then try to avoid the colors that do not match with your skin tone.

  • The brides can look for short or the long dresses depending upon their height. The short brides must try to avoid short dresses as they will look shorter in them.

  • Another important thing for planning the wedding dress is your body structure. One can be tall or short, obese or slim or sometimes having bulged out body parts like bust, waist , tummy , hips or thighs. So, your wedding dress must complement to your body shape.

  • Do not compromise with the comfort of your dress. The more you are comfortable in wearing the outfit, the more you will look confident.

  • While buying your dress, keep your budget in the mind so that the cost does not bother you. You can look for discounts or sales in the wedding boutiques which will limit your budget.

  • When you choose your wedding outfit, you should also choose matching jewels for enhancing your looks.

  • Some other factors like season, wedding venue , perfect alterations can also be included while choosing your wedding outfit.

So, these things will prove helpful in making up the bride’s mind for dressing herself perfectly on the wedding day and to enjoy the wedding.

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What if my husband has to go to a far off land for work just after marriage?

What if my husband has to go to a far off land for work just after marriage?

As we all know that Marriage unites two people in the unbreakable bond of the joys and sorrows of life. They are destined together to take any challenge boldly. But there are times when life takes your test and you get into the dilemma of choosing one out of the two. For instance, sometimes, just after the marriage, the husband has to leave his wife alone at home as the time demands of him to go and work in the foreign land in order to earn his livelihood. Then, a crucial time for the couple arrives. But if the partners cope it up wisely then nothing is problematic.

Wife has to play a pivotal role in dealing with such a situation. Though it is quite awkward and distressing at the same time to leave each other’s company just after when the real time of understanding each one has come. But as it’s said, ’time and tide wait for none’. So, this situation must be tackled in a prudent manner. It is universally admitted that a woman is known for her sacrificing nature. It is the trait which makes her identity different from the man. Hence, instead of making the things complicated by worrying or crying, the wife must sacrifice her happiness for the family.

Marriage is the second name of Compromise. So, the couple has to compromise with the circumstances in the hour of need. Sometimes, the wives go dubious about the intentions of her husband by thinking whether her hubby would return or not. But, it is always good to remain optimistic and try to establish a trust factor between you and your partner. On a positive note, the wives must stand with their husbands through thick and thin of life and try to be genuine in bestowing their unconditional love and affection on the soul mate.

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Respect for each other in a relationship!

Respect for each other in a relationship!

What do you think is the most important thing in a relationship? Which factor, according to you, keeps the relationship long lasting? You may think that only love is required to maintain a relationship, but it is not the case. Besides love, you need respect in a relationship. Every human wants to be respected and cared for.

Respect is nothing but giving value to the person for the way they are. If you can’t respect a person, you can’t live with that person; even if you love that person. You respect a person when you understand them, their ideas and their thinking. However, it is not necessary that it resembles your ideas and thinking.

The importance of respect can be understood by the following reasons:

  1. Your partner would desire the same kindness and politeness they give and provide to you. This kindness and politeness can only be given if you have respect for each other.

  2. Respect also helps in having good communication between the partners. When there is respect, partners understand and listen to each other. Even if their views do not match, they try to understand the other person’s perception. Fights can also be solved in a peaceful manner.

  3. Partners having respect for each other are more mature and do not act emotionally all the time. Emotions often make our decision wrong. For example, we always say that you should never promise something when  you are happy and you should never say something when you are angry. It is because at that time, our acts are ruled by our emotions. So, in a relation, it is really important to have control over the emotions.

  4. In most of the relationships, partners have problem with each other for being the way they are. This is due to lack of respect. It is to be understood that nobody is perfect and no two people can be exactly same. In a relationship, you need to do some compromises and understand your partner’s view. It can only be done when you have respect for each other.

Respect is admiring the person for who they are; and not willing or trying to change the person. Therefore, we can say, it is very important to have respect between the partners.

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Keeping your Long distance relationships alive

Keeping your Long distance relationships alive

Most people today are afraid of the long distance relationships. They consider breaking up with their partners instead of managing a long distance relation. You should understand that distance should not matter in any relation, but feelings should matter. There are many ways by which you can keep your long distance relation alive; some of which could be:

  1. Even if you cannot meet, you can always talk on phone. Nowadays, there are other ways of talking like skype, google chat, yahoo messenger, facebook and so on. These applications help in overcoming the distance barrier.

  2. You should be honest to your partner. It is not necessary to tell all the minor details, but tell as much as you can. The trust should not be shaken due to the distance.

  3. Even if you are distant from each other, it doesn’t mean that you can’t meet. It is true, you can’t meet daily or quite often, but you should try to meet whenever you can.

  4. The other thing to do when you are distance is to know your partner’s friends. Everybody needs friends and shares everything with them. You should ask and know about your partner’s friends. But it should be to a limit, don’t get possessive!

  5. There is no need to fight on every minor thing. But you should tell if you are hurt. It is good to control your anger, but it doesn’t mean that you don’t express what you feel. If you don’t express about your feelings or when you are hurt, it can be dangerous for your relationship.

  6. You can take breaks if you think so. There is no need to fret about breaks. It is always good to have mental space. It helps you understand things better.

  7. Emotions and intimacy are very important in every relation. Whenever you meet, you should be intimate with your partner. Talking emotionally also keeps your relation alive. So, whenever you meet, you should make it very special. The feeling and treatment your partner gets will make them forget about the distance.

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Keeping healthy relations with sister-in-law

Keeping healthy relations with sister-in-law

It is said that, When a girl gets married, she does not only set a lifelong bond with her husband but also makes friendly relationships with the other members of the in-laws family . This means, she gets the beautiful relationship of brother, sister, mother and father. So she has to take utmost care of all the relationships that are established after wedding. One of the significant relationships is, relation with sister-in-law.

The bride has to show utter prudence in building a healthy relationship with her sister-in-law. It is very necessary to comprehend the nature of your sister-in-law first. As you become the spouse of the sibling of the sister-in-law, husband tends to have more inclination towards his wife. So, this might bother the sister-in-law and she can behave vindictive towards you. The jealous can be more if your sister-in-law is not married yet. At this point, the initial effort should be from the bride’s side. Try to be friends with your sister-in-law by considering her as your own sister and assist her in need.

Moreover, Make your sister-in-law feel special by presenting her gifts on different occasions like birthdays or ceremonies. She will feel good. If you do not like any of her habits then try to accept her the way she is, because, nobody is perfect. Avoid the verbal battle as much as you can by staying patient and calm.

Furthermore, If your sister-in-law is married, then you can easily win her heart by being good with her husband, kids or other family members. She will surely respect you the way you give respect to her family. If you show such gesture, your husband will also appreciate you.

Hence, Little efforts made by you can make big changes in maintaining eternal healthy relationship in the in-laws family and thus, making you the symbol of admiration by all.

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Some Creative Gifting Ideas For Your Beloved!

Some Creative Gifting Ideas For Your Beloved!

For every special day, there are certain gifts. The market is flooded up with many precious gifts and if you want to get your beloved the most expensive gift then you definitely need to check your account balance!

But you must first think whether your partner is really fond of the expensive gifts or seeks your time and attention more? You’ll realize that the best way to make your beloved happy is by getting him/her a creative gift which you have prepared yourself. As life keeps on moving, you must start to realize that happiness could not be purchased by money, there are some moments which are beyond the reach of money.

The very first idea of a creative gift for your beloved is a gift basket. This gift akes a lot of research to make one. The basket contains all the items of your partner’s choice and it may astonish them about the effort you have put together to make it.

Mugs are also among other creative gifts for presenting to a girl. Your beloved might have a dozen of coffee mugs but it will be the best among her collection if you made one and presented to her. Nowadays, coffee mugs are also made by placing orders to professionals who paint them and even place a photograph of the couple over them.

Hand-made Paintings over the wall of their drawing room also reminds your loved ones that you are the right girl/guy they have chosen and also reminds them that they are so very special to you. But the art of painting needs a lot of practice and time to put together.

Rather than purchasing gifts from the market for any occasion, the best way is by getting your loved ones a creative gift because it makes them feel very special!

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