Save Your Marriage Before It Is Too Late

Save Your Marriage Before It Is Too Late

For some couples, trouble starts brewing in the paradise sooner than they had expected and those minor cracks in their relationships are already visible. Surprisingly, when they got married, they believed themselves to be mature and responsible adults. But now, they want their spouse to change first and adjust.

Well it won’t take one to make a relationship better. Just like marriage, it takes two people to couple up and both of them will have to make equal efforts to do the needful and save their marriage before it is too late. There are simple things that partners can do to resolve smaller issues and prevent them from getting any bigger.

To begin with, give each other some space. If your spouse doesn’t want to talk right away, respect their wish and talk to them when they are ready. It may be that they are already over loaded with information and overwhelmed with their thoughts.

Surprise the other by saying something nice, when they are expecting criticism from you. This will act as a catalyst and encourage new behavior from both of you. Avoid saying things or browsing sensitive topics on the fly that can lead to heated discussion. You can always sense your partners situation and see whether they would be comfortable with the discussion you want to have.

Listening is a wonderful tool that can do wonders to save marriage. This is perhaps the best gift the couples can give each other and do away with most of their problems. You will be surprised to see that you actually enjoy listening to your partner and discover a lot about him or her that you admire. Don’t keep all the love and praises for the beginning of the marriage. It is seen that the longer people are together, they start taking each other for granted and become miserly with their praises. But those magical words need to be said quite often to keep the marriage fresh and going strong.

Source :-
Indian Matrimony

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