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Is your partner the right person for you?

Is your partner the right person for you?

Everybody wants to settle down at some point. We want to marry and have children. But it is very important to choose the right person before marrying. Many of us have boyfriends or girlfriends who love us and care for us. But, how do we get to know that our partners can be our right partners or not?

Characters to look for in boyfriends:

  • Responsible and stable: Whenever you start with a new life, you need money. Money is needed for buying house, marriage expenses, living expenses and many more things. If you are thinking of marrying your boyfriend, he should have his saving plans and should be financially stable. He should also know how to spend money wisely and should avoid frivolous spending.

  • Selfless, and not selfish: Marriage is a lot about compromises. Your boyfriend must have chosen you over all other things at some point. If a guy only thinks about himself and you are not his priority, then he is not the one with whom you can spend your life.

  • How he treats his mother: You should always observe how your boyfriend treats your mother, because he would be treating you in the same manner in future. If he cares for his mother and looks after her, then he is surely a marriage material.

  • Is his home tidy: Your boyfriend should keep his home tidy. If there are clothes and dirty dishes piled up at your boyfriend’s home, he is not a responsible person and you must keep that in mind.

  • Trust: Trust is an important factor in every relation. If you trust your boyfriend for what he says, then you can think of marrying him. Establishing mutual trust is very important before deciding for marriage.

Characters to look for in girlfriends:

  • Fickle-minded: If the girl you are proposing marriage is having trouble committing to a job, friends or a hair style, then it should give you a rough idea that she is not the committing type. Such girls are the one who keeps on making new friends and dump the old ones. So, be careful!

  • Being jealous: If your girlfriend is jealous of every girl who comes around you, then even putting a ring over her finger will not make her secure about your relation. Her behavior is sooner or later going to change into possessiveness. A good home maker is neither possessive nor irrational until the man gives her a good reason to be suspicious about.

  • Space & Trust: Giving space and trusting each other is among the other things which a girl need to put together if she really likes a guy. If your lady companion really loves you she will give you enough space to figure out the things you are up to in your life rather than pin pointing at your decisions. If you ever find such kind of a woman, never let her go.

  • The final thing that a guy should keep in mind before proposing to a woman is that whether she has a habit of making changes to your personality? If she does keep on making comments to your appearance, friends, etc. then it is an indirect way of telling that you are not good enough for her.

These signs will help you in evaluating if your boyfriend or girlfriend can be the perfect partner for you. It is not mandatory that they will fulfill all these criteria, but if they fulfill even some of these and there is mutual trust between both of you, wedding bells can definitely ring!

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How do we decide that we are ready for a child?

How do we decide that we are ready for a child?

After the marriage, people start asking questions about a child. With their smiling faces, they ask “when is the good news coming”. And most of the couples are confused about their answers. They don’t know what to answer because they don’t know the answer themselves. They keep thinking that what would be the right time to have a baby. There is no hard and fast rule to determine the right time, but you can consider the following points in deciding the right time:

Financially Stable

Marriage, in its own, is a responsibility. It is basically running a house and is very different from living alone. In addition to it, when you are thinking of having a child, you should ensure that you are financially stable at that time. Having a child adds on a lot of responsibilities; and you need to be financially stable for taking good care of the child.

Mature enough

Being financially competent is not enough. You need to be mature enough to take care of your child. In addition to it, you must be capable of giving good values, manners etc to your child.

Able to give time

It is very important to see that one of the partners is able to give time to the child. If both are working and are unable to provide quality time to the child, then it is not a good option to have a child. You have to avoid your work, at least for some time, if you plan to have a baby.

The above mentioned factors may help in deciding the time of having a baby. It is just when your inner voice says or react positive towards having a baby. You just need to think about a situation when you got to know that you are pregnant. If that situation makes you feel happy, then you are ready.

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How to handle a situation if my husband always favor his mother?

How to handle a situation if my husband always favor his mother?

Marriage is not just about two people committing and living together. But, it includes the families also; specially the groom’s family. Out of all the relations, the relation between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most bittersweet. There must have been situations when your husband favors his mother; and you would have felt bad. There is no need to worry in such situations. Following would help you in dealing with such situations:

Think your husband’s point of view

Whenever there is an argument or discussion, and your husband takes your mother-in-law’s side, try to understand the reason behind it. There is no need to be hurt or angry; rather try to understand him.

Understand your mother-in-law

You often feel insecure from your mother-in-law. But have you ever thought how does she feel? You should understand that she must be having a fear of losing her son. In that fear, she sometimes tends to do such things which could hurt you. It is better to understand your mother-in-law and talk to her about it. You should give her the surety that she won’t be left alone. In fact, you should be in good terms with her.

Be patient

You have to calm yourself whenever such situation arises. Losing your temper and having a fight is not the right thing to do. Instead, apply your mind and give logical objections to convince your husband.

Treat her as your own mother

Think about a situation when your husband doesn’t like when you take side of your mother. How would you feel? I know you will feel bad. Your husband feels the same way. Mothers are not really the one to be jealous and insecure off. There is no need to feel bad if your husband takes his mother’s side. You should really respect her and treat her the way you would treat your mother.

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Skin care before the wedding

Skin care before the wedding

The Wedding day is the most special day in a girl’s life . She is enthralled with joy and puts her best efforts to look and get dressed in the most ultimate way on this day. Of course , The preparation gets started many weeks before the wedding. At this point of time, The wed-to-be girl’s prime focus is to enhance her celestial beauty. The more she takes care of her skin, the more she will look pretty.

Here are some of the tips and tricks for the skin that can boost her looks:

  • The bride-to-be is advised to add liquids like coconut water and orange juice in her diet for making the skin glowing and fresh. Drinking 8 to 10 glasses of water every day is also very beneficial and it gives a real moisture to the skin as well.

  • If you have patches on the skin then starting with the regular facials will assist in getting the right skin tone and will give a perfect radiant skin. It is not necessary to spend hundreds of bucks for paying the parlor bills, one can also try natural homemade facials which are really cost-effective.

  • Furthermore, if you have some skin problem or allergy or scars etc, you can fix an appointment with skin professionals who can assist you in getting the problem-free skin for your wedding day.

  • Though the period before marriage is filled with anxiety, nervousness for many girls but they should take an adequate sleep during the night . A sound sleep will give consummate relaxation to both the body and the mind.

  • The girls must get involved in some physical exercise because your skin breathes properly during exercise.

  • Apply sunscreen on the skin before 15 minutes when you go out in the sun for your wedding shopping or other chores.

  • Try to keep stress at a distance as it may cause acne or pimples on the skin.

In crux, special care is always needed for the skin for making you and your wedding day more special.

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Selecting the right outfit of your wedding!

Selecting the right outfit of your wedding!

The wedding is absolutely ‘The D-day‘ in every couple’s life. Of course, the bride remains the center of attraction on this day. So, she would want to look beautiful, elegant and confident, just like a Princess. Her wedding dress ought to be perfect.

There are many things to be kept in mind for choosing the right outfit on your wedding day such as:

  • To begin, if you have fair skin tone then you can opt for any color of dress but if you are wheatish or dark then try to avoid the colors that do not match with your skin tone.

  • The brides can look for short or the long dresses depending upon their height. The short brides must try to avoid short dresses as they will look shorter in them.

  • Another important thing for planning the wedding dress is your body structure. One can be tall or short, obese or slim or sometimes having bulged out body parts like bust, waist , tummy , hips or thighs. So, your wedding dress must complement to your body shape.

  • Do not compromise with the comfort of your dress. The more you are comfortable in wearing the outfit, the more you will look confident.

  • While buying your dress, keep your budget in the mind so that the cost does not bother you. You can look for discounts or sales in the wedding boutiques which will limit your budget.

  • When you choose your wedding outfit, you should also choose matching jewels for enhancing your looks.

  • Some other factors like season, wedding venue , perfect alterations can also be included while choosing your wedding outfit.

So, these things will prove helpful in making up the bride’s mind for dressing herself perfectly on the wedding day and to enjoy the wedding.

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www.starmatrimony.com
Indian Matrimonial Services

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